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I would say that this is not the key difference in how we interpret superposition. The interpretation about what is a superposition is basically the same in electromagnetism and quantum theory. Take, for example,two electric fields linearly polarized:
$$
\mathbf{E_1} = e^{i(kx-\omega t)}\mathbf{\hat j}, \quad \mathbf{E_2} = e^{i(kx-\omega t - \pi/2)}\mathbf{\hat k},
$$
the superposition $\mathbf{E} = \mathbf{E_1}+\mathbf{E_2}$ is a circularly polarized electric field, and the interpretation is that this is a new field, with new properties. No one would never say that this resultant field is simultaneously linearly polarized in two different directions at the same time.
Now, consider two quantum states of a two level system (qubit)
$$
\ket{0}, \quad \ket{1}
$$
The superposition $\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}(\ket{0}+\ket{1})$ is again a new state, with new properties, as in the electric case. The only difference is that, when people tried to figure out what a superposition between two macroscopically distinct states [1] would be, they found nonsense. The allegory of the Schrodinger's cat [2] is the demonstration of such frustrated attempt to apply the concept of superposition for macroscopic systems. To avoid any conflict, you could be pragmatic and, as in the electric case, consider it as I said in the beginning of this paragraph: the superposition is a new state, with new properties. It does not necessarily shares similar properties with the states composing it: There are quantum states that could be obtained as a superposition of infinitely many different quantum states, as the singlet state of two qubits:
$$
\ket{\Psi^-} = \frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\left(\ket{01} - \ket{10}\right) = \frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\left(\ket{+-} - \ket{-+}\right) = ...
$$
The key difference between the complex electric field and the wave function relies in the foundations of both. Electric fields are described by Maxwell equations, which are real equations. Thinking that way, there is not complex numbers in electromagnetism at all, everything could be done using real numbers, and the complex numbers are there just for convenience. But in quantum theory, the evolution of the wave function is governed by Schrodinger equation, which is a complex equation. It would mean that we should search for complex solutions.
For some time, some people believed that a real quantum theory could exist. But recent results[3] showed that it is not possible.
[1] With macroscopically distinct states, I mean states that could be distinguished macroscopically, like a pointer in a measurement apparatus. In the Schrodinger's cat allegory, the state of life of the cat is macroscopically distinct, you just need to open the box and look at it.
[2] I will let the wikipedia page about the Schrodinger's cat, but also there is this question and asnwers therein
[3]Quantum theory based on real numbers can be experimentally falsified, Marc-Olivier Renou et. al.