When hovering 2km. above the horizon of a black hole with a mass of the sun, at r=5km., the distance you measure with a measuring tape attached to a mass you throw in the hole will tell you the distance to the hole's horizon is about 4km. See this answer.
Now when we look at the situation in the frame to which the mass is attached, you will fall through the horizon and hit the singularity in a finite time. All masses that fell in before you are in front of you, and all that will be thrown in after you, will end up behind you.
How can this be reconciled with the 4km. that the observer hovering above the horizon measures? Won't the measuring tape break or show a lot more than 4km.?
And suppose I throw in two masses from a hovering platform. Say one minute apart. They will both show 4km. But when they pass the horizon they will get pulled apart by the tidal force, so the measuring tape of the first seems to measure a greater distance than the second mass. How can this be resolved?