I am trying to normally-order operators in quantum optics. Having normally-ordered expressions is useful when evaluating expectation values in quantum optics, as most of the times we can write the states in terms of coherent states, meaning that the normal ordering allows us to replace operators with c-numbers. For active elements, the paramount example is the squeezing operator, that satisfies the relations
$$\hat{S}(z)=\exp{\{z^*\hat{a}^2-z\hat{a}^{\dagger \; 2}\}} = e^{-\frac{\tanh(|z|)}{2}\hat{a}^{\dagger \; 2}} \left(\dfrac{1}{\cosh{|z|}}\right)^{\hat{n}+1/2}e^{\frac{e^{i\text{arg(z)}}\tanh(|z|)}{2}\hat{a}^{2}},$$
but the same holds for the two mode squeezing operator, that reads:
$$\hat{S}_{2 \; mode}(z)=\exp{\{z^*\hat{a}\hat{b}-z\hat{a}^{\dagger}\hat{b}^{\dagger}\}} = e^{-\frac{\tanh(|z|)}{2}\hat{a}^{\dagger}\hat{b}^{\dagger}}\left(\frac{1}{\cosh{|z|}}\right)^{\hat{n}_a+\hat{n}_b+1}e^{\frac{e^{i\text{arg(z)}}\tanh(|z|)}{2}\hat{a}\hat{b}}.$$
I was wondering if there is a clever way to write a similar expression for passive elements (linear interferometry) such as beam splitter, whose operators usually read $$\exp{\{i\theta(\hat{a}\hat{b}^{\dagger}+\hat{b}\hat{a}^{\dagger})\}}.$$ The point here is that the two ladder operators come always in pairs like $\hat{a}\hat{b}^{\dagger}$ or vice-versa, so while I can normal order an operator with respect to, let's say, $\hat{a}$, the same operator will be anti-normally ordered in the $\hat{b}$. It would be nice to have the same ordering for both modes, for example because, considering the Bloch-Messiah decomposition, we could in principle normally order any second-order nonlinear optical transformation. As a test for this application, we could consider the Bloch-Messiah decomposition of $\hat{S}_{2 \; mode}(z)$: we should be able to reconstruct the expression given above by reshaping the product of three normally-ordered operators. I tried many techniques (e.g. looking at the $\mathfrak{s}\mathfrak{u}(2)$ algebra of the bosonic modes, using coherent states' relations such as $1=\int \frac{d\alpha^2}{\pi} \left|\alpha\right> \left<\alpha\right|$...)