Collapse is supposed to be a process that takes a quantum system in a superposition and somehow selects just one of the states in the superposition:
$$\sum_a\alpha_a|a\rangle\to|a\rangle$$
This process isn't compatible with the equations of motion of quantum theory. Some "interpretations" of quantum theory postulate such a process without bothering to give an explicit account of it, such as the Copenhagen interpretation. Others, such as spontaneous collapse, explicitly change the equations of motion of quantum theory
https://arxiv.org/abs/2310.14969
These theories can't currently reproduce any of the predictions of relativistic quantum theories, i.e. - almost all actual experimental results involving quantum theory:
https://arxiv.org/abs/2205.00568
Some physicists have worked out the consequences of quantum theory without such modifications. When information is copied out of a quantum system, interference is suppressed - this is called decoherence:
https://arxiv.org/abs/1911.06282
Any object you see around you in everyday life will evolve a lot slower than the timescales over which information is copied out of them and so they will show negligible interference. The result of decoherence is that there are a bunch of different versions of the decohered system that evolve independently to a good but not perfect approximation:
https://arxiv.org/abs/1111.2189
https://arxiv.org/abs/quant-ph/0104033
This is often called the many worlds interpretation of quantum theory, but it is just a consequence of the theory when it is taken seriously as an account of what is happening in reality. In the MWI there would be a version of me sitting one millimetre to my left that doesn't interfere with me, but if you get down to differences around the size of an atom interference is no longer negligible and the different versions can't be safely regarded as independent.
We have already seen decoherence in action and measured and controlled it for systems about the size of molecules: accounts can be seen in the review linked above. So then if collapse is a significant effect it must happen for larger systems. Almost any interaction will cause decoherence and that includes even internal vibrational modes so it is very difficult to prevent decoherence for most large systems. So if collapse happens it is very difficult to observe. It is also unclear what problem such theories are supposed to solve since decoherence already explains the lack of quantum effects for large systems.