This has bothered me for a while now, however I barely have a vocabulary to ask it. Please let me try.
When a star, at the end of its life starts to collapse into the black hole, all the atomic forces are overcome and the matter begins compresses to an increasingly small volume. Popular literature describes it as a collapse to an infinitely small point of infinite density.
I am imagining this process, the matter keeps compressing itself getting smaller and denser. The density is so great, relativistic effects become noticeable at first and then considerable as the density increases, for the outside observer the speed at which the matter collapses should appear to be lower, the closer we are to the center. We cannot observe it per se beyond the event horizont, but this is what we would expect right?
And this is where my image freezes, if this idea is taken to its limit, the star cannot collapse to a point, as long as there is an outside observer. The matter can at the closest be infinitesmally short distance from the center point but not quite reaching it.
Am I thinking about this right? Or is this nonsense? Why?