I'm a software developer interested in learning quantum mechanics to simulate chemistry. I know it's a very difficult topic, so I consider it a long term "someday/maybe" goal, and I’m not sure it's even possible.
I've listened to some video lectures in introductory QM courses like Susskind's and Brant Carlson's youtube videos, and the content so far seems far removed from computing "chemistry" things like electron orbital shapes or bond energies.
Is it possible to simulate the time evolution of something "simple" like the colliding and reacting molecules in: $2\mathrm{H}_2 + \mathrm{O}_2 \rightarrow 2\mathrm{H_2O}$? I mean simulate from first principles - pure quantum mechanics without any estimates like "pretend this atom is a mass on a spring", etc.
If it is possible, what is a rough outline of the college courses required to go from point A to B - from intro quantum mechanics to the understanding needed to write code for that simulation? (Maybe it's less about the physics and more about tricky computational techniques of estimating solutions to equations?)