Let's say you can't get to the kettle for a few minutes after the kettle starts to whistle.
Presumably the temperature of the water inside the kettle is still rising, past boiling point If there wasn't the little opening to let the steam escape at some point it'd get hot enough in there for the kettle to burst (if the lid was un-removable somehow.)
So is it all steam inside the kettle at that point, all super-excited colliding with the kettle walls at high speed? If you open the lid right then does ALL the steam rush out at the same time? (don't want to try it, I think my skin would be burnt off.)
To go reductio ad absurdum, what if it's a HUGE kettle with a swimming pool's worth of water, is all the water boiling evenly when the kettle whistles and doesn't it become thousands of degrees before it has a chance to make its way out through the tiny whistle hole?