The mechanism for index of refraction in a dielectric is that the passing light wave's electric field polarized the material, which leads to a time-varying dipole which radiates in a manner such that the total wave moves slower.
So we should look for a similar mechanism in gravitational radiation. Here, the waves would induce a time-varying quadruple moment which then emits coherent waves such that the sum is slower.
LIGO had a 4 km sized quadrupole that changed length by $10^{-18}\,$m. That is not much of a change, so I am going with "no", in practice.
It's easier with EM because in an atom, say carbon in a clear plastic, you have a solid $+6e$ and you just need to separate the mean electron position ($-6e$) to create a dipole where there was none.
With gravity, you would need to make the material have a different quadrupole moment, but there is no negative mass, so you to completely deform it, and as shown above, 1 attometer doesn't cut it.
Note that the amplitude falls of linearly with distance for gravitation radiation, so if the two 50-ish solar mass blackhole had been at spin (8 light minutes) instead of 1 Bly, the amplitude would be:
$$ (10^{-18}\,{\rm m})\frac{1B\,{\rm year}}{8\,{\rm s}} \approx
60\,\mu{\rm m}$$
so that's not much.