This question is related to the much more vague closed question asked by someone else, but I am asking something more specific.
Suppose we have a circuit lying inside a three-dimensional region $D$ that is isolated from all electromagnetic fields coming from outside the circuit itself. Suppose that the circuit includes one inductor (with inductance $L$), and there is a three-dimensional region $R$ around the inductor such that the time-derivative of the inductor's magnetic field strength is negligible at each point in space outside of $R$. Assume that the region $R$ is small enough to not intersect with any other circuit components (besides ideal wire coming from the two terminals of the inductor) nor with any junctions in the circuit. Suppose that the rest of the circuit has negligible inductance.
We know that the voltage "across" the inductor is $-L\frac{\mathrm{d}I}{\mathrm{d}t}$, in the sense that [cf. Chapter 22 of the Feynman Lectures] if you connect an ideal voltmeter across the inductor using ideal connecting wires, and the voltmeter and its connecting wires stay outside of $R$, then the value shown by the voltmeter will agree with $-L\frac{\mathrm{d}I}{\mathrm{d}t}$ (or $+L\frac{\mathrm{d}I}{\mathrm{d}t}$ if you connect it in the opposite direction to that in which the current $I$ is being measured).
But what I'm wondering is whether this matches the "electrostatic potential difference" across the inductor; people seem to implicitly assume that it does [see my "Motivation" below], but I haven't seen this justified. More specifically, let us define the electrostatic potential difference between two points $\mathbf{a}$ and $\mathbf{b}$ within $D$ by $$V_{\mathbf{a},\mathbf{b}}^\text{static} = \frac{1}{4\pi} \iiint_D (\mathrm{div}\,\mathbf{E})(\mathbf{r})\left( \frac{1}{|\mathbf{r}-\mathbf{b}|} - \frac{1}{|\mathbf{r}-\mathbf{a}|} \right) \, \mathrm{d}^3\mathbf{r}$$ where $\mathbf{E}$ is the electric field strength; if we take points $\mathbf{a}$ and $\mathbf{b}$ on either side of the inductor, such that $\mathbf{a}$ and $\mathbf{b}$ are joined by just ideal wire and the inductor, and they both lie outside of $R$, do we necessarily have that $$V_{\mathbf{a},\mathbf{b}}^\text{static} \,\approx\, -L\frac{\mathrm{d}I}{\mathrm{d}t}$$ (where the current $I$ through the inductor is measured in the direction from $\mathbf{a}$ to $\mathbf{b}$)?
If so, how do we know this?
Motivation.
The above $L\frac{\mathrm{d}I}{\mathrm{d}t}$ formula is typically expressed as being something like "the induced emf in the coil" or "the induced emf across the inductor". I am wanting to know if the implied picture of the physics conveyed by this kind of phrasing is really correct.
To be more specific:
Imagine that in place of the inductor were an ideal, negligible-inductance chemical battery with an "emf" of 9V. Then in particular, the electrostatic potential difference $V_{\mathbf{a},\mathbf{b}}^\text{static}$ would be 9V, and this would coincide with $\,-\!\int \mathbf{E}(\mathbf{r}) \boldsymbol{\cdot} \mathrm{d}\mathbf{r}$ along any path in $D$ from $\mathbf{a}$ to $\mathbf{b}$. In very simplified terms: the battery uses its storage of chemical energy to do work on the body of mobile charge, and the electrostatic fields in the circuit do (ideally) exactly opposing work. The idea of the phrase "electromotive force" is that it's describing the "driving effect", so to speak, of the force provided by the battery on the body of mobile charge.
Now in the case of the inductor, as the current changes, the electric field $\mathbf{E}_{\mathrm{ind}}$ of the mobile charge in the inductor is itself doing work on the body of mobile charge; and ideally, inside the inductor, $\mathbf{E}_{\mathrm{ind}}$ is exactly balanced out by the electrostatic field $\mathbf{E}_{\mathrm{static}}$ of the circuit.
Now let us define "the inductor's emf" along a path as $\int \mathbf{E}_{\mathrm{ind}}(\mathbf{r}) \boldsymbol{\cdot} \mathrm{d}\mathbf{r}$ along that path; this seems to me the most accurate formalisation of the intuitive picture of "induced electromotive force". For the path from $\mathbf{a}$ to $\mathbf{b}$ that goes through the inductor itself, since $\mathbf{E}_{\mathrm{ind}}$ and $\mathbf{E}_{\mathrm{static}}$ balance each other out inside the conductive material, the inductor's emf along that path will be the same as $\,-\!\int \mathbf{E}_{\mathrm{static}}(\mathbf{r}) \boldsymbol{\cdot} \mathrm{d}\mathbf{r}$, which is the electrostatic potential difference $V_{\mathbf{a},\mathbf{b}}^\text{static}$.
Now if we use the phrasing that "the induced emf in the coil is $L\frac{\mathrm{d}I}{\mathrm{d}t}$", what I think we are really implying is that $\int \mathbf{E}_{\mathrm{ind}}(\mathbf{r}) \boldsymbol{\cdot} \mathrm{d}\mathbf{r}$ along the path from $\mathbf{a}$ to $\mathbf{b}$ through the inductor is $-L\frac{\mathrm{d}I}{\mathrm{d}t}$, and hence by implication $V_{\mathbf{a},\mathbf{b}}^\text{static}$ is equal to $-L\frac{\mathrm{d}I}{\mathrm{d}t}$. In other words, in short, the implication behind the typical phrasing is that
as far as the electrostatics and the emfs outside the region $R$ are concerned, everything is the same as if we had instead a chemical battery of emf equal to $-L\frac{\mathrm{d}I}{\mathrm{d}t}$.
But I don't see an obvious reason why this should be so; to be more precise:
Couldn't we have that the inductor's emf $\int \mathbf{E}_{\mathrm{ind}}(\mathbf{r}) \boldsymbol{\cdot} \mathrm{d}\mathbf{r}$ along the path from $\mathbf{a}$ to $\mathbf{b}$ through the inductor itself is equal to some arbitrary value $X$, and then the inductor's emf $\int \mathbf{E}_{\mathrm{ind}}(\mathbf{r}) \boldsymbol{\cdot} \mathrm{d}\mathbf{r}$ along every single other path round the circuit from $\mathbf{b}$ back to $\mathbf{a}$ is equal to $-L\frac{\mathrm{d}I}{\mathrm{d}t}-X$?