According to Wikipedia the acceleration of small mass due to the gravitational attraction of a larger mass is $$a = \frac{G(M + m)}{r^2}.$$ This implies that the force acting on $m$ should be $$F = ma = m \times G(M + m) $$ $$F = \frac{G(Mm +m^2)}{r^2} $$
If for example if $m =$ 0.001$M$ such that $m$ is a small fraction of $M$, the above equation could be written as :
$$F = \frac{G(Mm + (0.001M)^2)}{r^2} = \frac{G(Mm + 0.000001M)}{r^2}$$
it seems that because when $m$ is much smaller than $M$ the $m^2$ term becomes negligible and is discarded to give us the much more well known formula $ F = GMm/r^2$, meaning the well known formula is an approximation even without considering general relativity and is not accurate where $m$ is a significant fraction of $M$. Is that the case?