About the question of choosing between special relativity and Lorentz Ether theory.
Historically there have been cases with a parallel to that question.
I will first describe one such parallel case, and then I will return to special relavitity.
By the 1930's there was sufficient data from cloud chamber observations that there was something odd with beta decay. With all other forms of decay there was corroboration of conservation of energy, but with beta decay this was not the case.
Historians of science describe that Niels Bohr proposed to relinquish the principle of conservation of energy.
Another proposal was a theory of beta decay in which the missing energy is carried off by an a particle that is invisible to any detection.
In cloud chambers it is charged particles that trigger condensation. By the 1930's time the existence of the neutron was known. By itself a neutron does not trigger condensation in a cloud chamber, but sooner or later the neutron collides with something, in that collision event multiple particles are created, and from the trails of those particles the transient presense of a neutron can be inferred. Even if the probablity of a neutron interaction is low, as long as that probability is non-zero a sufficiently large experiment will eventually generate enough events to get to statistically significant numbers.
So OK, let's say we propose a small neutral particle, and we attribute to it a probability of interacting with other matter far smaller than neutrons.
As the experiments were refined no candidates for the 'little neutral particle' were encountered; the existence of the 'little neutral particle' seemed ever less plausible.
To propose a particle that is created in a decay event and subsequently never ever interacts with any other matter, that seems silly.
On a philosophic level: to propose the existence of a particle that is inherently undetectable: well, if you do that you lose more than you gain. Such a theory isn't ever going to increase your understanding of the physical world.
Now, in the case of the neutrino: eventually the existence of neutrino's was confirmed in the 1950'; the Cowan-Reines neutrino experiment. Neutrino's have an exceedingly low probability of interaction with other particles.
My point is: as long as the purported neutrino particle remained undetected the case against the neutrino particle was strong.
Returning to special relativity:
Lorentz Ether theory requires simultaneous supposition of the following: the existence of a Lorentz Ether, and the existence of a set of physical properties such that the Lorentz Ether is undetectable.
I submit:
To propose a theory with an entity (Lorentz Ether) that is inherently undetectable, such a theory isn't ever going to increase your knowledge of the physical world.
For me that is the reason for preferring the special relativity interpretation over the Lorentz Ether interpretation.