I've often heard it said that gravity is not a force, but that massive objects curve spacetime so that paths that look curved are really straight, and what's happening when we "feel gravity" is really just us following straight paths.
.... but ... no. That's clearly not true.
Just because a massive object turns straight paths into curves, doesn't mean I have to follow that trajectory. Let's say there's a "straight path in curved spacetime" from A to B, due to the gravitational effect that B has on A, and I am standing in the middle of that path with zero velocity relative to B. Then I'll still be pulled into B, won't I? That doesn't happen on any other straight path that I know of. So gravity must be a force, it's not just a straight path, since it pulled me in even though I had zero velocity.
Another way to see the above is via the fact that stable orbits are possible. If the Earth moves towards the Sun due to its straight path pointing towards the sun, why does the velocity of the earth in a different direction matter? It should just crash directly into the sun since that's where the straight path is pointing. If you're driving a Bugatti going 300kph and there's a wall "ahead" of you (i.e. on the straight path) ... guess what? You're crashing into that wall.
So no, gravity is not straight paths in curved spacetime. It's pretty clearly a force, since it depends on, and impacts, velocities.