I've read that asking "what's happening right now on a planet P that is N light years away from Earth?" is a non-sensical question due to time-dilation at great distances.
But I wonder about the following:
If we send a message to planet P, that will take N light years to reach the planet, and when received, that message will light up a red bulb on that planet,
then,
N light years from today, if X were to ask Y: "What is happening on planet P right now?" couldn't Y then answer: "A red bulb is being lit up on planet P right now" and wouldn't that be a sensical/meaningful answer ?
And likewise, if a person standing on planet P, N light years before the red bulb was lit, exclaimed: "A message was emitted from Earth just now" wouldn't they also be saying something meaningful/accurate ?