I am trying to unknot an obvious error in my understanding of the following example:
Fact 1: An observer on the moon watches a tiny ball of uranium and a tiny ball of iron fall. Both fall fall at the same speed.
Fact 2: In the gravitational field of venus, both balls will fall faster than in the gravitational field of the moon.
Rephrasing of fact 2: For an observer on the tiny ball of iron the moon falls faster in the gravitational field of the iron ball than the venus.
Problem: This rephrasing somehow clashes with fact 1 and with my (probably) wrong understanding of the weak equivalence principle.
I recall that the weak equivalence principle sometimes is formulated only for small test objects. But then: How small are they supposed to be? And then: If we assume this limitation, then it actually is not true but only a weak field approximation.
Quite obviously I am getting something very much wrong - but I currently fail to see what it is.
Add on: Quite clearly, the physical description should not depend on where we place the observer. So, how would a description of the weak equivalence principle look like which does not place the observer on the "heavier" object?