I am just starting to learn these subjects on the internet and I don't get it.
Usually, they will tell you that time just slows down when you are approaching the speed of light. They would usually rationalize it using all sorts of thought experiments, but to me, they appear logically flawed.
I usually see 2 main thought experiments. One is about 2 mirrors moving close to the speed of light so that the distance which light travels is longer. Now, because speed of light is constant, I, as an observer, would conclude that time slows down because we have a bigger $x$ but same $c$, so we must have a bigger $t$ to compensate.
Here is where my confusion starts. Why did you choose an experiment where light travels a longer distance? I can pose the same experiment differently, where the 2 mirrors are heading towards each other, so that the light on the moving mirrors would travel a shorter distance than my own resting mirrors. Wouldn't this prove just the opposite? Here, we have the same speed $c$ but shorter $x$ for the moving objects. Wouldn't I, as an observer, conclude that $t$ must be smaller?
Another experiment which I often see is about someone chasing light. What if I considered a different thought experiment where I weren't chasing light but instead running away from it?
The problem I am seeing in all of these thought experiments is that they arbitrarily choose one direction to prove that time slows down when approaching the speed of light. But how does that solve the 2 phenomena when you are heading towards it vs running away? Wouldn't "time slow down" solve it only in one scenario but not in the other?
Just as I show with the experiment of mirrors I could create a scenario which would prove that time actually goes faster. Not more slowly.
All you have to do is play with the directions. Tell me what I am missing?
 
     
     
     
    