My guess is that If I denote the $SO(4)$ indices $\mu, \nu = 1,...4$ and the $SU(3)$ indices by $I,J=1,2,3$, I think $N^{mn}$ should decompose as $N^{\mu \nu}, N^{IJ}, N^{I}_J, N_{IJ}$ plus other terms with mixed indices $I,\mu$, which I don't know how to determine.
I would appreciate if someone could give an explanation of an honest way to decompose $SO(10)$ in $SO(4) \times SU(3) \times U(1)$.