Sorry if this is a stupid question or if it's already been answered, but I struggled to find this answered anywhere:
I know that the equations and transformations etc etc show that, from two different perspectives (in different inertial reference frames? I guess is the word), two events could be perceived in one frame as having occurred simultaneously, and not simultaneously in the other frame. And that all the laws of physics are perfectly consistent with both points of view, and there's no way of measuring or determining that one frame was 'correct' and the other one was 'incorrect'.
What I'm unclear on is, even if there's no way of measuring or determining the 'correctness' of one frame over another, is it still possible that in reality, in the "source code of the universe" if you will, that everything really is being calculated from one particular inertial reference frame? Is it just that we can't find out what that 'objective' reference frame is, or is it categorically conceptually impossible for there to be an objective reference frame that underlies physics?