If the moon were shrunk to having a radius of one meter, without changing its distance (of the apogee) from the earth, what would be the slowest it could be slowed down to and still orbit the earth, albeit in a highly elliptical orbit? It shouldn't hit the earth. The speed at the apogee is what is sought. The apogee must be at 400,000 km from the earth, same as the moon's center is now.
The moon orbits the earth at close to one kilometer per second in a fairly round orbit. So the answer must be considerably less than that speed.
Someone better at math than me might be able to calculate it from the equations on this page: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vis-viva_equation.
The lunar distance is approximately 400,000 km says https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lunar_distance_(astronomy)
The radius of the earth is approximately 6400 km says Wikipedia: "A globally-average value is usually considered to be 6,371 kilometre" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Earth_radius.
The nearest to the surface of the earth that a one meter radius lump of moon rock could fly and stay in orbit, I estimate to be 100 km.