In short: Don't forget that phonons are sound, something you can hear - the lattice is emitting a sound
It's confusing because you have atoms (particles) and "phonons" (also particles) - and getting the picture ~ language ~ precision is confusing; and I'm sure people use the word "phonon" in a variety of ways. Here, I will use the word "particle" meaning "point-like" in the same way that we think of electrons as particles or points. Electrons, protons, "phonons", "photons" - are all 'dots on your page'. If you want to add more to this you can, but this is a starting point.
Briefly and for comparison, an oscillating charge produces light which comes to you in the form of a wave. But given wave-particle duality, for every wave, you can suppose a particle, and vice versa. So instead of a wave, I will say, "an atom" emits a "particle of light" - a photon. We learn this occurs in a quantized/discrete way.
A phonon is something you can hear (if you could hear a single phonon, in the same way if you could see a single photon - you're probably receiving many phonons, and many photons in any time interval). Your lattice of atoms is vibrating - that is, it is producing a sound. This sound comes to your ears. Tap on your table (you shook the table). You can either view this as a wave, or a bunch of discrete particles "phonons" being emitted. As atoms can only receive discrete and specific particles of light, so too, if you want to vibrate the lattice, it can only receive discrete and specific particles of sound, which it can then reemit (again, as sound, that is, you'd have to hear it, not see it). What makes this confusing is that, you also see the oscillations to the real/material object (which would be photons) - but phonons deal with sound - that are related to the actual oscillations of the physical object (this aside, you can really confuse yourself)
The air for the (sound) wave, is equivalent to the electric field for the (light) wave. Or you can disregard the mediums and think of particles being emitted - "whatever that means".
(He would know more than me) But I think I would agree with Hans Wurst. I wouldn't think too much about this response (it's confusing me too, because now I'm questioning "what is a wave"? "what is a medium"? - given I'm trying to make a distinction between the classical and quantum) However, I believe the basics of this response, that your lattice is emitting sound is correct; In the same way an atom can emit light, and receive light.
(actually, 'that your lattice is emitting sound' really is no more than a basic, common sense thing - but in the jargon and complexity of the math/language we can sometimes forget this) So if you're OK with the quantized atom - you should be OK with the quantized lattice. The atom isn't called a photon - nor should the lattice oscillations be called phonons. But they can receive and emit phonons. But again, there may be examples of "population this" and whatnot that I'm not familiar with (as in a "photon can be stored")
Also for clarity: I disagree with what your wikipedia link calls a phonon. (They give themselves a very broad liberty with that word - but it's not right). It's wrong in the sense of teaching/honesty to how they were taught/accumulation of knowledge. Would you call an atom in an excited state a "photon"? Show a photo of an atom and call it a "photon"? No - therefore, you would not call a lattice oscillation a "phonon". What you're looking at is not a phonon - but it can emit and absorb phonons
Also - I disagree with Roger V (though he's probably much smarter than me). I think he's playing around with words, thinking QFT says one thing, but if you were to pin him down on how he was taught/his training/accumulation of knowledge/what he actually thinks when he solves problems/how he would teach (if he could teach)/how he would explain truth (and not just brush it under the rug as "advanced stuff") - you could either pin him down as not really understanding what he's talking about, or that what he's talking about contradicts himself, and thus is just playing with words. (But I think towards the end of his answer he comes full circle)