It's a mistake to attribute the hurricane to the butterfly. Rather, hurricanes are going to happen at various different times and in various different places, but the precise time and location are sensitive to small effects. Not just the butterfly, but also myriad other processes contributed to determining the time and place and size, most of them much more significantly.
Let's compare this to something a little simpler: an avalanche of snow. Someone might say that a small noise 'caused' the avalanche, in the sense that if the small noise had not happened just then, then the snow would not have started to slip just then. But of course, the main causes of an avalanche are first the build-up of snow over a long period, and then the particular properties of snow which enable it both to bind to itself and also slip past itself, and finally the influence of the gravitational field of the Earth and the shape of the mountain and so on. And if one particular noise had not set it off, then something else would have done, very likely, soon after.
This illustration does not capture the more interesting dynamics of a chaotic system, but it serves at least to show that the word 'cause' is being used in a rather misleading way when someone says an avalanche is caused merely by a cough, or when they say a hurricane is caused merely by a butterfly. Such a statement fails to mention almost all the actual causes!
I guess the point of the butterfly analogy is this. A chaotic system such as Earth's atmosphere has an exponential sensitivity to initial conditions. This sensitivity is owing to the combination of gravity, heating from the sun, the rotation of the Earth, the physics of gas and water, etc. The location, timing, and strength of a hurricane are influenced mainly by these large-scale facts, but owing to the sensitivity, the details of the location are also influenced by smaller things such as the shape of the landscape, and even the particular shapes of waves on the ocean, and things like that. Even after one has taken into account the effects of landscape and waves, one would still find that even smaller things have a non-negligible impact on the time and location, right down to tiny things like air currents disturbed by butterflies. However, I do not know what are the limits on such effects: see the note added below.
Added note
With thanks to Niels Nielsen, I will add that it is entirely possible that the local damping that is present in air is enough to make butterflies in fact irrelevant to weather systems. In order to model a portion of atmosphere, one might use some simple model such as the one introduced by Edward Lorenz. He was simply interested in exploring what sorts of things can happen; he was not attempting a thorough model. In that model one finds deterministic chaos with all its interesting features, especially the exponential sensitivity to initial conditions. In such a model even the effect of a butterfly will be inexorably amplified up and up. However, a more realistic model will involve further features, including local damping. In such a model I think there can be damping of very small perturbations and exponential growth of somewhat larger ones. Having said all that, I am not working directly in this area so I hope an expert who is will chip in to confirm this last statement.