It is very important to differentiate between virtual gravitons (in QFT calculations of interactions) and real gravitons (GW quanta). Now there is no consensus on this site whether gravitons are the quanta of GWs or not.
https://physics.stackexchange.com/a/215180/132371
There are two ways we can detect gravitons, either build detectors as you suggest, or create them at the LHC.
Now detecting single gravitons is very unlikely, because gravitons interact with matter very very weakly.
$$\alpha_\mathrm{G} = \frac{G m_\mathrm{e}^2}{\hbar c} = \left( \frac{m_\mathrm{e}}{m_\mathrm{P}} \right)^2 \approx 1.7518 \times 10^{-45} $$
The gravitational coupling constant characterizes the gravitatonal attraction between elementary particles.
$$\alpha_\mathrm{G}$$ is 42 orders of magnitude smaller then $$\alpha$$
Now if you use the energies at LHC, you will see that it is similarly orders of magnitude less likely to produce a single graviton at the LHC then a single photon.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gravitational_coupling_constant
Thus, the correct answer to your question is that in the foreseeable future we will not be able to build detectors that can detect single gravitons nor will we be able to produce them at the LHC.
You are correct, it is the cross section.
Gravitons have a much lower cross section then photons to interact with matter.
https://arxiv.org/pdf/gr-qc/0607045.pdf