While studying the dynamics of a meteorite entering the atmosfphere, the book "Impact Cratering - A geological Process" by H.J. Melosh considers the forces of drag, lift and gravity and compares their sum to $m\vec{a}$. This is okay if the mass of the meteorite is constant, but then he writes that, due to the process of ablation, th mass changes following this equation: $$\frac{dm}{dt}=-\frac{C_H\rho Av}{2\xi}(v^2-v_{cr}^2)$$ where $v=|\vec{v}|$ and the other terms are constants depending on the shape and material of the meteorite and the density of the atmosphere.
My question is: if the mass changes during the motion, shouldn't we add a term $$\vec{v}\frac{dm}{dt}$$ to Newton's second law? And, if not, how do I know in which cases I must not consider that term even if mass is changing? (Why is ablation different from other ways the mass of an object changes?)