The QM postulates define the "rules" used in the mathematical formalism of Quantum Mechanics. From these postulates you can determine experimentally verifiable predictions, but the postulates themselves are not (or maybe even cannot) be experimentally verified. This can be seen by looking at the postulates (I am getting these from Shankar's Principle of Quantum Mechanics, Second Edition).
- The state of a particle is represented by a vector $|\psi(t)\rangle$ in a Hilbert space.
- The independent variables $x$ and $p$ of classical mechanics are represented by Hermitian operators $X$ and $P$ with the following matrix elements in the eigenbasis of $X$
$$\langle x|X|x'\rangle=x\delta(x-x')$$
$$\langle x|P|x'\rangle=-i\hbar\,\delta'(x-x')$$
The operators corresponding to dependent variables $\omega(x,p)$ are given Hermitian operators
$$\Omega(X,P)=\omega(x\to X,p\to P)$$
- If the particle is in a state $|\psi\rangle$, measurement of the variable (corresponding to) $\Omega$ will yeild one of the eigenvalues $\omega$ with probability $P(\omega)\propto |\langle\omega|\psi\rangle|^2$. The state of the system will change from $|\psi\rangle$ to $|\omega\rangle$ as a result of the measurement.
- The state vector $|\psi(t)\rangle$ obeys the Schrodinger Equation
$$i\hbar\frac{\text d}{\text dt}|\psi(t)\rangle=H|\psi(t)\rangle$$
where $H(X,P)=\mathcal H(x\to X,p\to P)$ is the quantum Hamiltonian operator and $\mathcal H$ is the Hamiltonian for the corresponding classical problem.
Notice how these postulates are all mathematical in nature. There isn't a way to actually test for a state vector, or to test what the matrix elements of an operator are. Therefore, these are postulates. They are assumed to be mathematically true, and we then see what else must be true because of these postulates. Then we can test the predictions made by the theory.
Note that the same exact thing is true for classical mechanics. The corresponding postulates are given in the same book:
- The state of the particle at any given time is specified by the two variables $x(t)$ and $p(t)$, i.e., as a point in a two dimensional phase space.
- Every dynamical variable $\omega$ is a function of $x$ and $p$: $\omega=\omega(x,p)$
- If the particle is in a state given by $x$ and $p$, the measurement of the variable $\omega$ will yield a value $\omega(x,p)$. The state will remain unaffected.
- The state variables change with time according to Hamilton's equations
$$\dot x=\frac{\partial\mathcal H}{\partial p}$$
$$\dot p=-\frac{\partial\mathcal H}{\partial x}$$
These are mathematical postulates of classical mechanics. We can use them to derive experimentally testable "laws" linking the math to the physical world.
Therefore, the postulates are mathematical assumptions. Laws, (or rules, etc.) are then predictions from the postulates that that can be experimentally verified. Additionally, we usually give the "important" results the title of "law". For example, the time $t$ it takes for an object to fall a distance $h$ from rest close to the Earth is given by $t=\sqrt{2h/g}$, but we don't call this the "law of falling time", or something like that, even though we can experimentally confirm it.
As also mentioned in other posts, laws are not necessarily always true. They might only be true when a certain number of criteria are true. Yet when they are true, they are important and sort of constitute a "law" in the sense that it is something that must always be true if it can be true. For example, Newton's law of gravity is not always valid, yet it can explain many phenomena when it is valid. Additionally, some laws were "created" before the theoretical underpinnings were created (like Kepler's laws).
In (a possibly imprecise) summary, "postulates" are just something we assume to be mathematically true. If the predictions from the postulates turns out to be false, then we need to change one or more of the postulates. A "law" is something that can be derived from the postulates whose truth depends on how well it describes the physical world around us.