from the geodesic equation for non-relativistic case where $$v_i\ll c$$
$$\frac{dx^i}{dt}\ll1,{\rm for }\ c =1$$
$$\frac{dx^i}{d\tau}\ll\frac{dt}{d\tau}$$using this the geodesic equation for proper time $\tau$ becomes $$\frac{d^2x^\mu}{d\tau^2}+\tau{^\mu}_{00}(\frac{dt}{d\tau})^2=0.$$ if $g_{ij}\ne f(t)$ then $$\tau^{\mu}_{00}=-g^{\mu s}\frac{d g_{00}}{2d x^s}.$$Now if we assume that the curved part of the metric is a perturbation to the flat part
$$g_{ij}=\eta_{ij}({\rm flat})+h_{ij}({\rm perturbation})$$
Can anyone please help in how to calculate $g^{ij}$ if off diagonal terms are non-zero (for general case)?