I'm currently reading these$^1$ lec. notes as an introduction to relativistic QFT. In chapter two (pp.57-61) he introduces the concept of field variations along with some formulas for the different kind of variations (I think at least that is what he is doing...). I'm having a really hard time with the math that he writes down there.
He discusses the example of a Poincare-transformation that sends $x$ to $x'$. He states that we can then write $$x'^\mu \approx x^\mu + \delta x^\mu = x^\mu+\delta \omega^{\mu\nu}g_{\nu\lambda}x^\lambda+\delta \omega^\mu,\tag{2.12}$$ where $\delta\omega^{\mu\nu}=-\delta\omega^{\nu\mu}, |\delta\omega^{\mu\nu}|\ll 1$, $|\delta\omega^\mu|\ll 1$ and $g_{\mu\nu}$ the metric tensor. I can understand the first approxmiation, why $\delta\omega^{\mu\nu}$ has to be antisymmetric and much smaller than one, but I fail to see why $\delta x^\mu = \delta \omega^{\mu\nu}g_{\nu\lambda}x^\lambda+\delta \omega^\mu$ should make sense as an approximation. He then goes on to say that $$\begin{align*}\Delta u(x) &\equiv u'(x+\delta x)-u(x) \equiv \delta u(x+\delta x) + du(x)\\&=\delta u(x)+\delta x^{\mu} \partial_{\mu} \delta u(x)+\cdots+\mathrm{d} u(x) \\&= \delta u( x) +\delta x^\mu\partial_\mu u(x) + \mathcal{O}(\delta u \delta x),\end{align*}\tag{2.13}$$ where $u:\mathcal{M}\to\mathbb{K}=\mathbb{R}$ or $\mathbb{C}$ is a function on the Minkowski space and $u'$ the function after the Poincare-transformation. I honestly don't understand any part of the above calculations (mostly because he doesn't even mention what $\delta$ and $d$ are supposed to be) and can even less imagine what $\delta u(x)$ is supposed to be.
Can somebody maybe explain to me what exactly is going on here and why assumptions like $[\delta,\partial_\mu]=0$ make sense? If you know of a better introduction to the topic feel free to suggest some books, paper, etc.
Math background: I'm not particularly familiar with the calculus of variations. I had some exposure to it in a classical machanics course, where we defined the variation of a functional ($\delta S[f]=\frac{d}{d \epsilon}\left.S[f+\epsilon \delta f]\right|_{\epsilon=0}$), but other than that I don't really now anything on the subject matter.
$^1$ Introduction to relativistic quantum field theory, R. Soldati, 2019.