I believe that Newton's third law is valid in special relativity. But I read an argument in Griffiths' textbook Introduction to Electrodynamics (3rd edition), where he argued on page 517, that Newton's third law is violated:
Indeed, if the two objects in question are separated in space, the third law is incompatible with the relativity of simultaneity. For suppose the force of $\mathbf{A}$ on $\mathbf{B}$ at some instant t is $\mathbf{F}(t)$, and the force of $\mathbf{B}$ on $\mathbf{A}$ at the same instant is $-\mathbf{F}(t)$; then the third law applies, in this reference frame. But a moving observer will report that these equal and opposite forces occurred at different times; in his system, therefore, the third law is violated.
Currently I could not find a argument against his. I found several posts here in Physics SE arguing that Newton's third law is equivalent to conservation of momentum, which is correct in special relativity. However, their reasons do not seem to invalidate Griffiths' argument. I would like to know where did Griffths' went wrong in his argument.
Update: I realize that there are several similar posts:
Is Einstein's Special Relativity completely inclusive of Newton's 3 laws of motion?
Violation of Newton's 3rd law and momentum conservation
But both of them centered on the momentum conservation, whereas what I want to ask is about the action-reaction view of Newton's third law.