You're getting misled by the very simple Boolean logic model of the actual complicated digital logic circuit and power supply operating at a temperature.
Digital logic is just 'convenient analogue'. Remember to never lose sight of the actual analogue circuits in that logic. Each of the logic gates is a very high gain amplifier and the SR latch has high-gain positive feedback. The input thresholds are not balanced and the circuit has an indeterminate region. Individual gate transistors can have a relatively wide tolerance.
The Boolean arithmetic model of the circuit has none of this. It's just an expression. The model is just that: an approximation of the electronic circuit's behaviour. It's a very valuable tool if applied to the circuit within the strict confines that digital logic is to operate in: good supply voltage, sharp rise/fall times, light output loads etc.
The real circuit has quite a different situation. On power-up, which the simple SR latch model doesn't accommodate, the power will rise to VDD. While it's below its minimum range, the slight difference in each gate's behaviour will cause the SR circuit to tend towards one stable state or the other. It's unlikely to power up into metastability unless the supply has a very fast rise time.
To model this actual behaviour would need very accurate and unavailable data about the characteristics of each gate transistor in each bought IC, as well as the operating characteristics of each board: supply voltage noise and temperature.
Without that, the power-up state must be considered random. It's most probably not, as the part characteristics and tolerances probably have a greater bearing than the supply noise. But its the most reliable simple view to take, especially when looking at large numbers of the same circuit, such as in mass production.