Actually, it's not recommended to handle those files by hand. Per crontab man page:
Each user can have their own crontab, and though
these are files in /var/spool/cron/crontabs, they are not
intended to be edited directly.
Files under /var/spool are considered temporary/working, that's why they probably get deleted during an upgrade, though a closer look at the cron package's upgrade scripts may shed some light on this.
Anyway, it's always a good practice to back up your cron entries or keep them in a file in your home directory.
I assume you're using crontab -e to create crontab files on the fly. If so, you can get a "copy" of your crontab file by doing crontab -l. Pipe that to a file to get a "backup":
crontab -l > my-crontab
Then you can edit that my-crontab file to add or modify entries, and then "install" it by giving it to crontab:
crontab my-crontab
This does the same syntax checking as crontab -e.