space turning into a cone and going in another dimension
In the example the cone is still a 2D manifold. The geometry that is being described is the 2D geometry of the cone itself, not the 3D geometry in which the cone is “embedded”.
So can this effect be visualised without involving 5th dimension?
Gravity in general relativity is mathematically described using 4 dimensions (3 of space and 1 of time). In the math there is no need for any embedding space. Such a space, if it exists, has no bearing on the physics in the 4D manifold.
As far as visualization goes, we have trouble visualizing even 4 dimensions. I don’t think adding a 5th would help with visualization.