Two spaceships synchronize clocks, depart at noon and meet up at a destination. For the first spaceship it appears they have traveled for 30 minutes and because of time dilation the second ship has traveled for 25 minutes. From the first spaceship's point of view they meet at exactly 12:30.
On the second spaceship, their clock shows they have traveled 30 minutes and ship one has flown for 25 minutes.
This is a very confusing description. I gather that you are intending to make the scenario completely symmetric. With that assumption then (modulo a shift of the origin) I believe the only scenario which fulfils your criteria is the following:
I will use minutes for time and light-minutes for distance so $c=1$. I will express spacetime coordinates as $(t,x)$ in flat spacetime. There are three reference frames of interest.
$F_0$ is the inertial frame where the ships are initially at rest so that they can synchronize their clocks. In this frame ship 1 is initially located at $x=-9.95$ and ship 2 is initially located at $x=9.95$. At noon both ships clocks read $t=0$ and the ships accelerate instantaneously to $v=\pm 0.302$. Then both ships will arrive at $x=0$ at $t=31.5$. In this frame both ships are time dilated by a factor of $\gamma = 1.05$ so the clocks on both ships read $30$. There are three important events: the departure of ship 1 $D_1=(0,-9.95)$, the departure of ship 2 $D_2=(0,9.95)$ and the arrival of both ships to the middle $A=(31.5,0)$
$F_1$ is the inertial frame where ship 1 is at rest after it accelerates. Note, this frame is not the rest frame of ship 1 because ship 1 is non-inertial and the frame is inertial. Nevertheless, after the acceleration it is reasonable to use this frame as the perspective of ship 1. Applying the Lorentz transform to the three events we find that in $F_1$ the coordinates are $D_1=(3,-9.95)$ for the departure of ship 1, $D_2=(-3,9.95)$ for the departure of ship 2, and $A=(33,-9.95)$ for the arrival of both ships. In this frame ship 1 is not time dilated, the journey takes 30 minutes and ship 1's clock records 30 minutes. However, in this frame ship 2 started 6 minutes early. Ship 2 is traveling at $v=-0.553$ and is time dilated by a factor of $\gamma=1.2$ The trip takes ship 2 36 minutes and ship 2's clock records 30 minutes.
$F_2$ is the inertial frame where ship 2 is at rest after it accelerates. Applying the Lorentz transform to the three events we find that in $F_1$ the coordinates are $D_1=(-3,-9.95)$ for the departure of ship 1, $D_2=(3,9.95)$ for the departure of ship 2, and $A=(33,9.95)$ for the arrival of both ships. In this frame ship 2 is not time dilated, the journey takes 30 minutes and ship 2's clock records 30 minutes. However, in this frame ship 1 started 6 minutes early. Ship 1 is traveling at $v=0.553$ and is time dilated by a factor of $\gamma=1.2$ The trip takes ship 1 36 minutes and ship 1's clock records 30 minutes.
So the key is the relativity of simultaneity. Their clocks are synchronized in $F_0$ and they start at the same time in $F_0$. Because of the relativity of simultaneity in $F_1$ ship 2's clock is 6 minutes ahead so it starts 6 minutes before ship 1. Similarly, in $F_2$ ship 1's clock is 6 minutes ahead so it starts 6 minutes before ship 2.
Note, if I did not assume correctly that you wanted a completely symmetric setup then I apologize in advance. If you did want a completely symmetric setup then this is the only one that fits your description and still addresses time dilation.
Both ships could take a semicircular route moving at the same velocity and arrive at the other side of the circle at the same time.
This will not help you understand time dilation because in this case neither ship is inertial at any time so neither ships perspective can be represented with an inertial frame over any period.