Server is Ubuntu 20.04 on VMware, installed with gnome. Installed XRDP; works great - except for complaints of lagging and sluggishness. The screen's not the usual Gnome layout though; no icons, but the apps are available via the Activities link upper left of screen.
Installed XFCE (Xubuntu), rebooted. Login screen via RDP hangs then dies - there's no option to choose which desktop, but there is when on the VMware console. Spent hours poring through this site and many others - nothing worked; too many rabbit holes so I restored the VM from backup.
Wondering if others had the same experience; is there something obvious I'm missing? Many of the tutorial sites just say install XRDP, then XFCE and Bob's your uncle. Not mine apparently!